Wake Up Call

As a young mom of three, I find myself so caught up in life that I forget the things that I enjoy to do. So I decided to start blogging about things that are close to me for a couple of reasons-

1. To help others.
2. Give other moms insight.
3. And just to be able to write how I feel.

So here is a little about me and what you will see on this blog-

I'm Jeri. I'm a wife, mother, and a Latter-Day Saint. I love to bake and cook and usually have guests over once a week. I'm a pinterest junkie, a lover of books, and a facebook fool.

You can bet you'll see recipes of my favorite foods and desserts, my crafty creations, my feelings of being a mother to child that is labeled "special needs" and some good book recommendations.

(My 2 year old son may not look like he has special needs, but according to therapist, schools, etc. he has that label. So if you see me or talk to me and I sound stressed, I am.)

But before I go, I want to share this post I found on facebook that made me open my eyes.

Dear Mom On the iPhone,

I see you over there on the bench, messing on your iPhone. It feels good to relax a little while your kids have fun in the sunshine, doesn’t it? You are doing a great job with your kids, you work hard, you teach them manners, have them do their chores.

But Momma, let me tell you what you don’t see right now…..

Your little girl is spinning round and round, making her dress twirl. She is such a little beauty queen already, the sun shining behind her long hair. She keeps glancing your way to see if you are watching her.

You aren’t.

Your little boy keeps shouting, “Mom, MOM watch this!” I see you acknowledge him, barely glancing his way.

He sees that too. His shoulders slump, but only for a moment, as he finds the next cool thing to do.

Now you are pushing your baby in the swing. She loves it! Cooing and smiling with every push. You don’t see her though, do you? Your head is bent, your eyes on your phone as you absently push her swing.

Talk to her. Tell her about the clouds, Mommy. The Creator who made them. Tickle her tummy when she comes near you and enjoy that baby belly laugh that leaves far too quickly.

Put your eyes back on your prize…Your kids.

Show them that they are the priority. Wherever you are, be ALL there. I am not saying it’s not ok to check in on your phone, but it’s a time-sucker: User Beware!

Play time at the park will be over before you know it.

The childhood of your children will be gone before you know it.

They won’t always want to come to the park with you, Mommy. They won’t always spin and twirl to make their new dress swish, they won’t always call out, “WATCH ME!”

There will come a point when they stop trying, stop calling your name, stop bothering to interrupt your phone time.

Because they know…

You’ve shown them, all these moments, that the phone is more important than they are. They see you looking at it at while waiting to pick up brother from school, during playtime, at the dinner table, at bedtime…..

I know that’s not true, Mommy.

I know your heart says differently.

But your kids can’t hear your words, Mommy. Your actions are screaming way too loudly.

May our eyes rest upon those we love, first and foremost, and may everything else fall away in the wonderful, noisy, sticky-fingered glory of it all.


We live in a world where the technology is amazing.... I love it, but I HATE it! But today we had a kid's day and for  the whole time I made sure it was a priority not to have my phone out, but to have my camera out capturing those moments that will be gone all too soon.

Until next time,
Jeri